Which Business Networking group suits you?
Here are 5 things to think about before you join or leave a group.
Thanks to everyone who attended the networking for results seminars and workshops in 2009. The purpose was to help attendees create instant attraction (some call it stickiness) when at a business networking event. Attendees also learned how to shift the paradigm of networkers “if everyone is trying to sell how do I establish interest in me?”
They can now practice everywhere they go, sharpen up and measure the results – there’s no reason why they shouldn’t use their new skills on LinkedIn, twitter, etc. or at social events. After all, the first key to business networking is to help others so there’s no harm in doing that everywhere you go.
Here’s 5 top tips on getting results from business networking groups:
- Only join a group if you are prepared to make introductions and follow up on those you receive. The more you give the more you receive so get comfortable with the fact you know a lot of people and they might thank you for making connections to the new people you meet online and offline.
- Ensure you can meet the commitments; including your time, effort, resources and money. Some groups have rules relating to introductions you must bring to the group, some focus on quality or accountability, others are happy if you turn up and pay your dues. Networking effectively means allocating time for preparation and follow up. Groups and events are a great place to meet people yet it’s the extra time spent with them that makes the difference between networking and notworking. One group generated over £500,000 between 23 people in 12 months. It wasn’t though luck.
- Geography and practicality; often ignored yet you should find out about the group and it’s members as well as travel concerns. If you are a local business join a group with local contacts. Parking tickets are a pain, especially if you have to leave early to feed the meter or catch a train. Leaving early has the same effect as arriving late. You miss out.
- Personality of group; Dark and cold January mornings are bearable if you’re enjoying yourself. If you feel at home when you arrive at a group you’re in the right place, so trust your instincts. If they are welcoming and helpful, it’s a good sign. They will help you if you are willing to participate.
- What are you going to bring to the group? If you don’t contribute you will not get results. If you do, things will return to you in abundance. You won’t get plenty of introductions each week because you go networking. You will get them because of what you do between events. There should only be one reason to leave a group – you cannot make the commitments anymore.
Wrap up; Are you prepared to make introductions, follow up on every one you receive, allocate time to prepare, meet people after the event and contribute? If so, you can find a group that is right for you. Groups can be great and you can multiply the results you get inside and outside groups if you create a networking plan. Contact us for details of our seminars and quick results training where you can learn how to do this.
Tip for today; Don’t underestimate people in any group that you visit. You have no idea who they know and they won’t tell you until you have helped them. Click here for a download to help you achieve that.
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Sound advice!!
You TOTALLY get back what you put in!
Thanks Carolyn,
Yet I’m inclined to sat you get back MORE than you put in. As long as the input is valuable.
Jason:
We said, the one thing people don’t think about when joining a networking group like BNI (7.5 year member myself) is they have to contribute. You have to have the mindset that you are there to give and contribute.
If and when you get that in your mind you WILL be successful. The issue is most people come in gung ho thinking they are gonna get a ton of referrals and do nothing in return.
So they start getting very little and after a few months quite because they claim they are not getting any business.
Givers Gain.
Dean
BNI Winning Edge
Pembroke Pines, FL
Thanks for your comment Dean,
The first line of your second paragraph is great yet, for some people, a difficult mindset to adopt. Especially if their motivation to join the group is heightened when they received referrals as a “visitor”. I’m not suggesting that these referrals should not be given yet they should be handed over with the clear statement that “this may not happen every time you’re here, you will have to work at it and we are happy to help you”.
Hi Jason – In your “Tip for Today” you say “Don’t underestimate anybody in the group”, and that they won’t help you until you help then. Then you say “Click here for an article on how to do that”. But there’s no link to click on.
Please add the link as I (and I’m sure many others) would like to know how to do that.
Hi Wayne, thanks very much for pointing that out, I’ve corrected it. Let me know how I can help you in return. Perhaps you can ask people you help for the same thing that you ask me for?
I agree with Dean. As another BNI member, the ethos of Givers Gain really does pay off in the end.
Great article.
Thanks for your comment. The strategy you employ can be replicated in all sorts of places. This article explains why it’s OK to network everywhere http://beyondnetworking.co.uk/blog/?p=158. One small clue; it’s not what you do, it’s the way that you do it.
In my experience it’s almost impossible to evaluate the actual potential of a group or other networking situation – you have to roll up your sleeves and get stuck in to really find out who’s who and what is going on. So the best thing there is to go on is the personality of the group mentioned in the article – it’s a ‘feel’ thing.
Great comment. Whenever I’ve been looking for a new home or office, I’ve always gone for the one that “felt” right. And I’ve never been disappointed.
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